The Ole’ Green Box of Heart-Aches!
Heart-aches! We all have them…many are in different forms and basically, they are little remembrances, whether it be pictures, sentimental greeting cards, old letters, or whatever….I call that battered ole’ green box, my heart-ache box. Below are only a few pictures….I haven’t even scratched the surface yet of photos to smile at.!
Keep in mind these pics are before the new technology age….these were the “Good Old Days????” I’m not so sure about that.
Let me tell you about my plan. I wanted to get through all these pictures and greeting cards,… scan them and present them to my children on Thanksgiving.
But like most plans these days……this plan has to be modified….the going is slow! 😉
You see that ole’ green box houses so many things….and of course, they are all unorganized at the moment. What am I saying? They have always been unorganized.
I have…over the years managed to take some of the photos and put them in photo albums…but that stopped when “life” happened. You know what I mean? When you get busy with something else and so you shove it aside to “work on” at another time…but that other time really doesn’t happen….at least for me. Perhaps you are more organized with your pics and mementos than I am.
Organization doesn’t happen in one day…No, it hurts too much.
Let me explain, I don’t necessarily mean painful hurts, although there is that….it is also a hurt that tugs at my memories of years gone by.
As I hold each picture or memento in my hand…my mind races back to the very day the picture was taken or the card was received….and I hold the picture gingerly as if it might break….much like my heart is breaking with joy or sadness.
And then, I flip the pic over and many times there is no date or identity of the person in the photo…so I stop and write all the pertinent information on the back….or at least as close as I can remember on some of them.
And then there are “THOSE photos”….these are the ones that I sit and stare at for minutes on-end, trying to decide who is in the photo. Luckily, all of these photos are my family and etched into my brain!
However, the photos that I have set aside because I do not remember who they are…yet! … reminds me of the movie “On Golden Pond” with Katherine Hepburn and Henry Fonda and I really do laugh out loud.
There is a scene at the beginning of the movie (as the two of them are arriving at their summer cabin on Golden Pond) and the character played by an aging Henry Fonda, looks at a wall of photos…..and says “Who are these people”?….and of course those people in the photos are actually the two of them in their younger years and their various family members.
Yes, pretty funny until it happens to you!
I have been working on this green box for about a week now, and I really haven’t begun to make a dent in the stacks of pictures. My goal is to give all the pictures to each of the kids respectively….I am just hoping I get through them all before next Thanksgiving…cause it certainly ain’t happen’ for this Thanksgiving! Too many heart-aches!
Are you, my dear readers, organized with all your family mementos?
Thank you my dear readers for going down memory lane with me….I sure hope my family is speaking to me when they see all these old pics. teehehehe! I am not identifying any of them ….they know who they are…and of course, some of you will recognize them too! So this is also a way of telling each and every one of them to give me current pics that are DSLR perfect (without all the fuzziness, etc) and I will post them too! 😉
Just to show that I have some ring-a-ding-ding pics too….
All the pics below are of me….with my Mom at 2 months old….(having my say), and 5th grade school class picture (you will have to try to find me, no help here)…beehive hair-do at 23 years old and with Air Force One in my Aviation Days…(Clinton was President, you do the math)!
Love and hugs to you all…..Next installment coming soon to a posting near you! 🙂
Karole Jacobsen says
All those pics and cards and stuff we hold on to “for someday” when the time is right we will go through them! Right? Ever so often I think I will do just that. Maybe just a box today or open it up and get lost in the memories and time is up and the box gets closed “for another someday”. Hugs!
Kari says
You are so right Karole….I am still going through the “ole green box”….but my goal is to give all the pictures to the kids now….which can be difficult deciding when there is more than two in a pic. hahaha! But, I have to admit, I have shed a few tears looking at these pics.
Hugs always
Janet says
Thanks for sharing. I also have boxes of photos. So many to go through, some day…
I always say I’ll do it on a rainy day. But which box do you start in?
We have boxes of camping pictures. After awhile, you forget when and where they were taken. Oregon, New Mexico? Many times it’s decided by the vehicle we had. Green station wagon-New Mexico. Red station wagon-Oregon. Blue truck- late 70’s & early 80’s.
We’ve gone on about 10 cruises. Many different ruins and excursions. It helps to stand next to a city sign or a monument, so I can remember where I was. Sometimes there’s snow, so that helps define the area more.
So relatable to your blog today. You’re not alone.
Thanks for making me feel like I’m not alone in this!
Kari says
I have to thank you Janet for your confession… which helps me to know that I am the not alone with my stashes of pics.
Miss you guys so much…the Captain said the other day…lets start planning our trip to Hawaii to see Bud and Janet!
hugs
Tami says
Just went thru the photos with Trev, he had some good laughs. And he has heard the story many yime about uncle Bubba and the trash can lid, he liked seeing that pic.
Kari says
I still laugh when I see Brett…I will post a pic with the trash can lid in his hand….when I find it at the bottom of the heap! haha
I have some great ones of you in your pink striped “Lets Get Physical” exercise outfit and headband at the age of 3 or 4.
Thanks for stopping by.
hugs always
Sandy says
Kari, I tried to do the same thing last year, but never finished. Actually, I thought I was going to get of cards, but I couldn’t part with them because the messages were so special.
I don’t have a green box, but I have two drawers I use for our pictures and special cards. I do have some pictures in albums, but not nearly enough. Albums take up room, too.
Enjoyed your trip down memory lane.
Kari says
thanks Sandy….glad I am not the only one with pictures with no place to go but a big box!
Twin #1 says
All I can say is… What have you done? Check out Dad’s shorts!!! Why is it when one looks through old photos, sometimes you just cant help but laugh? We laugh and the clothes. We laugh at the hair. And then your kids laugh at the same thing and then all of a sudden those photos arent so funny anymore.Thats when you think to yourself…they will get theirs one day. It may take awhile, but it will happen. And thats when we get to laugh… Thanks though Mom for the memories. Some of those I havent seen before. I like them all…even if Dad is wearing Daisy Duke shorts.
Kari says
I guess I hadn’t noticed the Daisy Duke Shorts….hahaha!